Indeed there was a young man who was a total stranger to us , who came infront of my hubby with moistened eyes telling how his prof is mistreating him and he is about to quit his doctorate ...felt for the enthusiastic young man whose only identity we know was nothing much but that he is a Muslim and so he decided to help him. After a lot of meeting with hubby's big prof , and continuous request , finally my hubby's big professor Mohammed reluctantly agreed to take him (only it's because my hubby requested and his big prof too being a muslim) ...overjoyed young man became so happy and his childish nature (outwardly) made me too feel for him as his wife was away from him for delivery.
We invited him many times and he spend great time , even late hours at night in our apartment ,with us and as a man who stays alone , we prepared him a lot of times , varieties of food especially for him...while his chit chat he promised many things like we will go together some where when his family comes back ... He promised he will invite our parents to his home for food etc etc but everything was just words blown in wind..we realized some thing...but we forgave..after all ...all those things are not be done out of reminders....he even said how his family is grateful to us ..only because my hubby helped him to be there to continue his studies...
Infact we slowly realized..all were sugar coated words...we loved him just as a Muslim..when we seeked a help it was that moment we realized how selfish people were ...yet we forgave....when it's time to depart from that country, it was ONLY he and his family who didn't call us even once to ask how and when we are parting and in any help we were in need....the shifting was indeed horrible and our non Muslim friends helped us so well ...alhamndhullilah...even the big prof Mohammed called us and offered his helping hand ...SUBHANALLAH ...
Yet We did our manners as a true Muslim...before departing from that country,we called him in spite of his silence...and we talked ...SUBHANALLAH ...indeed we thought he was too innocent ...but it was not so...big prof Mohammed was calling and calling and expressing his grief over our departure that made me and my hubby so sad...and infact i cried alot and my hubby was departing with a heavy heart and moistened eyes...but look how this gentleman and his family treated ...before departing I mailed his wife ..but until now I didn't get a reply...after our call he messaged us with some words of sorry...but everything was just not making sense to us...texting when he could call??? But still we replied all on the way only to make him happy and feel at ease...
From Hubby's lab every one called ...many mailed asking whether we settled here and are we comfortable..and even the big prof Mohammed used to call and mail him...he once called nearly thirty minutes and talked SUBHANALLAH ..yet not even a single sentence from this young gentle man..what a great Muslim..!!!! He said he is too sensitive... SUBHANALLAH ..is this the way a sensitive soul behaves...? Myself also being so sensitive ...I cannot with stand a relation coming to an end ..and above all the first thing this gentleman did was removing my hubby from his online talking system SUBHANALLAH ...why ? only because we loved him and helped him? What a great reward Ya Allah ...!!! At times I regret I loved them so much so that ...I spend my hours framing their kid's photo and sent to them...
He said many times , verbally how he loves my hubby and how he is going to miss him ( during his early time) if we go from there..but when the time came , he proved his real self...lessons are to be learned from here ..don't fall in every one's sugar coated words..don't fall in every one's moistened eyes...every one approach us for their needs and not for His sake...SUBHANALLAH ...
it's being a few months we reached here...our non Muslim friend use to call us...hubby's all colleagues use to call and email him except this gentleman SUBHANALLAH ...that gentleman whom my hubby felt for ..for whom we prayed so hard , when we saw him so down , when he was about to quit his dreams of doctorate ...About that gentleman even my parents and his parents use to ask even now...subhanAllah....we still remember that day when we were praying so hard for his approval of shifting professors....when his approval of taking under Mohammed came through hubby , we were so blasted with happiness..But we were so foolish that we took him and his family to our heart ...but they just used us for their needs...indeed we deserve it...because Allah knows what is best for us..
I have to scribble this as I waited and waited until now for a response from them...now keeping this in mind is just giving food for Saitan to get benefitted.....so have to spit this out for Your sake and to save myself from any negative energy...
Good luck gentleman and family..good luck...sorry for all the good feelings we have for you..we can't help it as we love you from heart and your love was just a couple of hurts.....
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Posted By Aadhila to Aadhila's Outlooks! at 2/18/2013 10:52:00 PM
