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Friday, February 6, 2015

Why are you against adoption ?

Today called advocate for Nuunu s purpose . He narrated an interesting story .One of his client adopted a baby boy . Whole family (of his ) turned aganist him . Unfortunately his own brother and family was behind the screwing . He is unhappy now because this client's property will be his and others if he don't have a heir . So all were united before their secret adoption decision was announced public .

The client thought that his own family will be so happy to see them happy with a baby but the client got surprised how all they turned aganist him . Their love was for his property ... So now the client is moving forward with second adoption to add oil to the fire .

I appreciate the client but the story made me wonder yeah sometimes somewhere people might have loved our loneliness and loved our property and we loved them as our real treasure ...

Interesting to hear such instincts also exist among blood ties - we die without heir and they get our property but who guaranteed who will pass away first ...

And the advocate added that's why many families are aganist adoption . He is full of such experiences .

May Allah help us from such evil thoughts culminating in our near and dears brain ...let every one can be happy in others happiness and blessings as everyone's life is unique ...

ALLAH knows best






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People are so wicked - an adoptive mom's agony

-From An adoptive mom's journey journal~


People are so wicked ....
SubhanAllah!

One side they say to me,
don't say Nuunu -my fostering baby girl -is an orphan ... (I don't want to lie to her about her identity as I want her to be proud of her identity and existence as ALLAH has chosen her to be as HE choose our beloved prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم and other prophets to be orphan ...I want her to build up self confidence and fight this pessimistic world.. Who wishes to show the scars and squeeze the blood... )


Other side they ask me ,whenever they see me and my lil squirrel
"She recognizes you , she is Okkey with you , she is able to be in company with you ..."

What a contrasting questions !!!

If Nuunu was my biological child will they ask me these questions again and again , all the time even though they witness how glued , attached she is with me!
Earlier it was about having kids ; now it's about the kid I have ... People's thirst of squeezing others feelings will never get quenched ...

Now they worry about Breastmilk even if there are mothers who give birth and yet don't have Breastmilk to feed...

World listen -Nuunu don't need Breast milk to exist but she needs love, care and security from all the wicked people ...








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